Sibling's Day

Apparently, people have been celebrating this newfound “holiday” that is supposed to happen every April 10th – Sibling Day. Although I doubt this is anything official, I still thought it was a neat idea since I have a sister to celebrate it with. I’ve decided to dedicate this post to her.

Melinda Pham (the one sitting on the right side wearing sunglasses in our picture at Yosemite with our family) is not only my sister, but is also my best friend. She’s someone I talk to every single day despite the long distance. Whenever I need someone to listen to me or she needs someone to lend an ear on her bothersome days, we are always there for each other. I am most comfortable around her. I never feel the need to censor my thoughts and feelings when I am with her. She has somewhat became my other half. Whenever something bothers her, I will become just as frustrated and upset as she is.

Although we had our petty arguments and instigated fights with one another as children, as the years went on, our bond grew infinitesimally to the point our angry vituperation towards each other has now became nothing more than jokes. After an exchange of rude language and put downs, calling each other “bitch” and “asshole,” we immediately burst out laughing and then continue on about our day. (So it was no surprise when I told her Happy Sibling’s Day, she responded with a “Happy Sibling’s Day to you, too” with an emoticon of a middle finger shoved towards my face…)

Despite seeming very close to my sister, we never say anything affectionate towards each other. We may listen to each others’ problems and do sisterly bonding activities, but we never say “I love you.” We can both be very stubborn people and choose to not say the little things that actually do matter. What I like about the concept of Sibling’s Day is it is very similar to Mother’s and Father’s and Valentine’s Day–giving love to the important ones in your life. To my sister, even though I don’t say this often, I appreciate everything you’ve done for me, all your tips and advice, and for being the only person out there who is willing to listen and put up with me during my worst times. And I love you!

The picture above perfectly describes our relationship. The one with the crooked head is my sister when she attempts to annoy me.